Matthew 5:22

But I say to you that everyone who continues to be angry with his brother or harbors malice against him shall be guilty before the court; and whoever speaks (contemptuously and insultingly) to his brother, Raca shall be guilty before the supreme court and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ Shall be in danger of fiery hell.

We need to understand that strife between us and others only causes spiritual harm. When we step out into anger, gossip, and accusations against others, we are speaking words for the enemy. Yes, there are times when we need to speak out against wrongs. However, monitor our speech, feelings, and words that we use. Do not make the problem large and God small. Stand on the word of God and let Him be your advocate.