1 Corinthians 13:2

And if I have the gift of prophecy (and speak a new message from God to the people), and understand all mysteries, and (possess) all knowledge; and if I have all (sufficient) faith so that I can remove mountains, but do not have love (reaching out to others), I am nothing.  

Love is the gold standard of how to measure our attitude toward others.  If we don’t seem to be getting our prayers answered or feel blocked with God, check the love.  If we are angry and frustrated with life, check our attitude; are we in love.  Love isn’t a feeling. It is a choice and a driving force in our faith walk.