Proverbs 26:3-4

A whip for the horse, a bridle for the donkey, and a rod for the backs of fools (who refuse to learn).  Do not answer (nor pretend to agree with frivolous comments of) a (closed-minded) fool according to his folly. 

Everyone has had a lesson they have had to learn about themselves and their decisions.  When we do what we think in right in our own eyes and not listen to God as He tries to steer us in another direction.  The same lesson will keep coming before us in many ways until we change our mindset and change our path according to the wisdom that comes from God.  The best part is the victory when we do learn and change.