Luke 6:37
Do not judge others self-righteously) and you will not be judged; do not condemn (others when you are guilty and unrepentant), and you will not be condemned (for hypocrisy); pardon (others when they truly repent and change), and you will be pardoned (when you truly repent and change).
The truth of the matter is that none of us is perfect except for Jesus. We can’t judge others because we’re most likely doing the same thing. If we keep our minds focused on Jesus and working out our own salvation, we won’t be looking at everyone else. Yes, people will still do upsetting things, but try as hard as possible not to let it stop the plan of God for your life.