Ephesians 4:2-3

With all humility (forsaking self-righteousness) and gentleness (maintaining self-control) with patience, bearing with one another in (unselfish) love. Make every effort to keep the oneness of the Spirit in the bond of peace (each individual working together to make the whole world successful).

Paul is addressing the church on how to treat one another. He reminds us that there may be friction in our relationships with other people in the church. We are to keep a bond of peace and love. Everyone has things going on in their lives that affect behavior.