Proverbs 14:1

The wise woman builds her house (on a foundation of godly precepts and her household thrives), But the foolish one (who lacks spiritual insight) tears it down with her own hands (by ignoring godly principles).

Godly principles build the foundations for a strong family unit.  Those principles are not based on feelings, anger, resentment, jealousy but a decision to follow the word.  The development of our Spirits will keep us in line with Godly principles which follow peace, faith, hope and love. God wants our families to succeed and will help us when we ask.