James 3:16-17

For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder (unrest, rebellion) and every evil thing and morally degrading practice. But the wisdom from above is first pure (morally and spiritually undefiled), then peace-loving, gentle, reasonable, full of compassion and good fruits. It is unwavering without hypocrisy. 

To draw closer to Jesus, we must examine our hearts and turn from selfish ambition. Our goal as Christians is to work toward the eternal, not the temporary, gains here on earth. The motivation of our hearts is crucial, and when we practice being loving and kind, our lives and relationships will flourish.