James 3:13

Who among you is wise and intelligent? Let him by his good conduct show his (good) deeds with gentleness and humility of true wisdom. 

The wisdom of God far outweighs the wisdom of man. Our humility before the Lord will keep our hearts teachable so that we can walk in the knowledge of God. When we are still and willing to listen to the voice of instruction, we can bypass many problems. God will direct and lead us if we are willing to be led by Him.