Proverbs 20:3

It is an honor for a man to keep away from strife (by handling situations with thoughtful foresight), but any fool will (start a) quarrel (without regard for the consequences).

When we seek to keep peace in our lives, we will handle discussions with more equity. We know that quarrels are peace killers and lead to more strife. Communication is the key when it comes to expectations in any situation. How we deal with others in quarrels will leave a lasting memory, good or bad.